Unfortunately I let myself get caught up in another situationship. With someone that’s still hung up on their ex.

When will I ever learn?

Monday night: “I couldn’t let 24 hours go by without hearing your voice… call me at 7 in the morning…”

I call at 7am. We talk for 8 minutes.

I text about an hour later.

I *still* haven’t heard from them. No text back, no call yesterday, it’s been 24 hours since I heard their voice.

And they’re the one on FB posting about “no one is too busy…” “their actions show you how they feel about you…”

You’re right, Sir, your actions have shown me that I’m not important. I dunno if those messages are directed towards your ex, or if you’re trying to throw shade at me, but I’m done with it. You have consistently been less and less communicative with me. Even when you called me Monday night to hear my voice, we barely had a conversation after being on the phone for an hour. You were too busy in your group chats and watching videos. But anyway… I’m so f’ing tired of feeling like an option.

I am letting you figure it out with her. I know you love her. I know you still want her. I’m removing myself from the equation.

I still care about you, but I also care about me and my mental health. I’m happy being your friend, but access is going to be limited to me.