Misplaced Anger, Perhaps?

I had someone get really angry with me tonight… all because I haven’t texted them since Wednesday.

This person consistently replies to my messages with reactions or emojis about 90% of the time. This person seemingly expects me to message them first, always. This person doesn’t really ask about what’s going on in my life or even about my day, when I made a point to ask how their morning/day/night was going pretty much daily. This person started ignoring their phone (or maybe just my messages?) on weekends… so I stopped messaging on weekends. This person is so hot-and-cold about talking to me, it really made me feel like they didn’t want to talk to me. So, I stopped talking. I stopped making an effort.

Look. If you value somebody, if they are somebody you are flirty with or actually want some kind of relationship with? Don’t jerk them around. Give them time and attention. I understand that you’re busy with your business and your family and whatever extracurriculars you have going on – just understand I need more time and attention than you are willing to give me.

I’m pretty sure he blocked me. And ya know what? That’s ok. He’s allowed to do whatever he feels like he needs to do. I don’t think it’s fair for all the blame to be on me, but if that’s what it takes to feel better then go for it, bruh.